An old man walking on the road with some empty bottles in a bag. It is evening. The sun is going to set. The weather is cloudy and it is raining. It is the start of early summer. He has not eaten anything since last night. He has just drunk water and he passed the whole day. Now he is feeling weakness in his body. He is over 50 years old. This is a recreational place of the most expensive city of the country. People are enjoying and wandering with their beloved ones. He felt he can not walk any more . He sat down with the side of the road and suddenly he started vomiting.
This is not just the imagination. This is a bitter reality which happens everyday for many times. We are living in the most developed world ever. We are going to spend billions on dollars in space research. We are spending a lot of money in purchasing and developing weapons of mass destruction. Even 1 dollar can fulfill his need. Only one dollar but no one cares. People just passes away from him without getting him into notice. Their are so many organizations spending millions of dollars every year on animal rights and animals protection while the humans are dieing with hunger. No organization can eliminate poverty from the world but common man. If i start caring my surrounding we can change the world. We just need to care a single person every day.
How does it feel when you live with someone for a long period of time and then you decide a breakup? Well, it is a difficult situation for someone to face. When we live with someone it is rather impossible to avoid conflict because where there are two person there is a conflict. So we can not avoid conflicts in the life. Then what is the solution? Is it possible to live with a person with all conflicts? And more importantly is it possible to live happily with someone having conflicts at the same time? Coming to the first question. Let us try to find out the solution of this basic problem. Before answering the question one thing should be pretty much clear that we can not avoid or eliminate all conflicts in our whole life. Now the first thing which matters is what the actual conflict is? It rises further question how much it is important to give importance to the conflict? It always depends upon the nature of the conflict. For example while living with your life partner there may be the conflict of choices. I like blue but the other partner may like purple. This kind of conflict can be simply compromised and we should not insist or force the other person’s choice.The other more important kind of conflict may be the conflict while making a decision about a particular situation. Your partner may be thinking the situation in a different way. This kind of situation can be handled by having strong logical arguments but still you need to compromise as well.
Another very important aspect which we always miss out is that we must understand the fundamental difference between men and women’s way of thinking. This is the fact that women think about a situation in different way than men. So we should not ignore this fundamental difference while talking to our life partner and we should give importance to his or her point of view.
The human life is begging. The difference between poor and rich is widening. We are saying the world is getting more developed. We are inventing new technologies on the daily basis but look at the other side of the picture. The life is getting worst and worst. People are dying due to hunger. The burden of responsibility is increasing. The overall mental tension is going higher and higher. we should stop and think. Where we are going? What is our destination? Are we going to destroy this world? What does prosperity means? Are we ignoring basic human needs? Why we are unable to ensure food for everyone till now? Humanity has traveled a long way but still we are far away from destination and even we are widening this distance. Are we moving opposite to prosperity? The world is a global village but my neighbor is just an alien for me? We still did not learn how to live in a society? Are we still living in the cave age? Shamefully saying the children are being rapped. The people are dying with the hunger. Still people are fighting on the basis of color, race and religion. The condition of humanity is getting worst and worst. The condition is getting worst and worst but we are still living on this planet.
My life comes to a point where i need to choose one thing between two. One is love and the other is religion. We both are Muslims according to me at least. We both believe in one GOD. We both believe in one Holy Book. We both believe in one Holy Prophet but still we have some differences. We belongs to two different sects indeed. How someone can change his or her believes? According to me someone can change his or her believes if he or she comes to know that he was wrong with some strong evidence against his or her believes without any evidence or proof if someone says that he or she is going to change his belief then he or she is telling a lie. I have tried to fix this situation at my best. I don’t know what will be the result of this whole situation but one thing is sure i am no more believing in the sects. She chose religion and i selected love. We both have different ways to follow. We have separated our paths.
I am burning in the fire of religious differences. I don’t know if we should tolerate the believes of each others. One thing should be pretty much clear that we can not survive without tolerance in this world. We should take care of one and other believes.
There are two ways of thinking and from very beginning to till present both of them exists. One is to think logically and rationally, and the other is to think by heart. Sometimes when we look into someone’s action we instantly say, are you mad? Yes when we think logically we always judge our actions in the light of knowledge we have and most of the times we always have good materialistic reason behind our action. There is another point of view which sometimes totally contradicts with our physical knowledge and the knowledge of science. For example we will say a person a mad if he put his hand on fire. Because our knowledge guide us that the property of fire is to burn. So we know the result which the hand will be burnt by the fire. If someone do so we call him a mad because we have a good scientific reason behind it.
Now look how love contradicts with knowledge. Knowledge says love is madness but when I ask love about knowledge it replies, knowledge is just the name of calculations and although knowledge guides you but knowledge is not the destination. There is a continues fight inside me between knowledge and love. Knowledge put me in calculations like when I starts calculating my profit and loss the knowledge simply calculates if you are earning more money you are getting prosper but when I ask love what is the profit and what is loss it totally guide me in the opposite direction. Love has different way of calculating profit and loss. It does not measure it with earning money and other calculations, it says when you are internally satisfied and when your soul is happy you are getting prosper.
When we try to find the truth or seek for the truth most of the time we don’t want to seek the truth we just want to find some arguments which support our belief and ego. If something go against our ego we just refuse it. We also think like the truth will make us happy.But this is not the case.
The truth in its nature is bitter. If we want truth according to our desires then we will never be able to find the reality. The first thing is to decide whether we really want to find the reality or we just want to satisfy ourselves by finding some supporting arguments to our believes. Now if we have decided to seek truth then next step is to prepare ourselves to listen with humble to the people who are against us and then analyze it. Stop .. you are again just finding some arguments against the opponent. This is your ego don’t let it to drive you. We must here try to find the real truth by studying everything on that topic. At the same time we just not be the toy in the hand of others. The other might not be right at the same time. Sometimes we don’t have exact answers in real world problems. But don’t think you have wasted the time. Research will enhance your knowledge and you may apply this knowledge at some other place. Sometime we need to find the whole path again from different angle and this continues until we reach the solution and until the chain completes. So let us devote our lives to find out the realities to research and to seek our paradise in this world and to find out the solutions of basic human problems.
I was busy at some task from last 2 weeks and I was stuck at some point. After applying a different solution I did not found any of them as working solution. I was in continues pain. But thanks GOD at last I have discovered a working solution at the end. Although I did not achieve all of my target set for today (infect for yesterday as it is around 5:00 am but today in the sense I had just finished the work and going to bed at last i-e end of my working day) but at the end of the day I am happy to achieve this target. So it was a better then yesterday. Keep it on buddy tomorrow should be more successful.